Will anyone believe that I being normal looking and normal witted girl have never liked the concept of date?
I consider me as a partial romantic by nature. Not much expressive but sometimes reflective. But over the time I realized going out for a date is one of the worst nightmares for me.
Ask me why? Yes, I surely have justified answer to support my statement.
I hate the idea of date because I have to put more effort to make myself up. I have to dress well - no matter my favorite dress is wrinkled at that very moment or no matter my one of the expensive attires has gone for the dry cleaning.
I have to sleep well at night prior to the day of date. So that I should not yawn so often! And my droopy and dreary eyes should not bug my man (of course on that particular day)! And he should get a short and sudden hap to look into my eyes romantically.
I have to plan my entire work schedule beforehand in order to avoid any kind of eleventh hour client-clash. I should avoid the frequent mobile disturbance while my one foot is about to cross the threshold of my house and my so-called date is waiting for me outside.
Now the situation comes where I have to be very much into the limit of expression, if dating someone for the first time. I need to count every movement or posture of eating if my date has taken me for dinner or lunch.
I need to follow each and every table manner once learnt somewhere in the grooming class. I have to hold my body posture bold and tight so that man with me trying to gauge my intension for this date must not feel awkward. I have to limit my number of drinks. I won’t be allowed to get drunk and be slouchy over his shoulder at the time of date.
I have to control my emotion even if the boy sitting next to me is among the cutest males I have ever met in my life.
My every action should be rational and I need to be the utmost controller of my each emotion at that particular day of date.
My hind brain will always push me to make every effort to impress this man and the guy will do the same thing with me too.
He will try to portray himself as the ‘chela of Superman’ and hold that can-do attitude for the rest of the time. He will smile without showing much of his teeth. No matter that he is not much accustomed to stand below the shower since last few months. Though he will make sure that he takes bath and smells good at that particular day!
One more thing to mention, women give an expression of being overjoyed just like winning the crown of Miss World after getting any surprise gift from her date. With the passing time of my life, I have noticed that no such thing does really make much overwhelming impact in my mind. And I don’t get tickled with the incitement so that I can open my mouth with “O” shaped hole and put my two hands on my both cheeks. And very frankly it doesn’t bring tear to my eyes. I probably show gratitude only by saying “Thank you”!
Thus, so-called dating idea somewhat does not appear to be impressive addiction to me.
It’s better if to fall in love, stay at your home and think about the man you like the most. Read more books so that you can involve more spice to your fantasy, lend your ears to the most romantic tunes and be in touch with him emotionally as long as you want.
Does this write up make any sense to dating-lover or to those lovers who love to date very often?
But in my opinion:
TO LOVE HARD YOU NEED NOT TO WORK HARD!
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